Now our conversation changes direction 180 degrees; away from what is wrong with each other towards the pleasure of watching each other grow. This abundance begins when we experience that loving each other feels way nicer than fighting. We learn the power of VOWS.
Through a process of working our vows, the foreboding of yet another evening together gives way to the joy of being allies. Our “issues” lose their power to derail us, because, through the lens of our heart we see them for what they truly are: mere deflections from embracing love.
We begin Tantra: the process of allowing our highest desires (fantasies) to enter our real lives. In this abundance, weighty issues like sex and money appear lighter and richer.