the Hero Goddess Path with Ray & Akama Bergen Ray & Akama Bergen
 

HERO GODDESS: Ongoing GROUPS


 
Relationship
Training Program

....During our 20 years together Akama and I have discovered, sometimes painfully: love flourishes only if it nourishes freedom; and freedom only blossoms in the service of love. When love and freedom undermine each other, love stagnates. We feel trapped, separate and despairing.

We developed our “If you love me set me free” trainings in order to help couples regain the vitality, openness, and possibilities that flow when love and freedom support each other,. The trainings progress experientially through ceremony. They incorporate ritual’s powerful ability to move each of us through our unique version of this paradox that lies at the heart of every conflict large or small.

This fall we offer two levels of training. Level I is for all couples interested in understanding the nature of their conflicts and permanently resolving them. Level 2 is open to those couples who have completed level I or its equivalent and wish to move deeper into nourishing each other by experiencing the blessings of actually living in our hearts instead of occasionally touristing there.

We invite you to join with us as we travel the distinct layers through which relationships evolve --- starting with the frustration of “wanting more” and ending with the exhilaration of “being” our selves – both free and in love.

Blessings,

Akama & Ray

 

 

 
 

Level I
Journeying to our Heart

The strength of this experience lies in the supportive bond generated from meeting with the same couples over the duration of the training.

This training demonstrates how powerful our love becomes when we embrace freeing the other from limitations rather than defending or attacking those limitations.

We begin at our gap: the distance between the heights we aspire to reach and the lows preventing our arrival there. As we enter our “gap” we come face to face with our core drama; the one through which our “beggar” and “Tyrant” personalities sabotage our hearts’ desires and create feeling trapped.

To free our selves from these despairing interactions we learn how to reunite as allies. We step into powerful Hero/Goddess aspects of our masculine/feminine characters through embracing a specific combination of courage and let-go.

United by that courage and with the support of our fellow travelers we journey into our hearts.

Level I
Journeying to our Heart

Cost:
Full day gathering:$200 per couple
Half day gathering: $50 per couple

Location:
307 Lotus Lane
Saugerties NY

 


Level   2
Living in our Hearts


Now our conversation changes direction 180 degrees; away from what is wrong with each other towards the pleasure of watching each other grow. This abundance begins when we experience that loving each other feels way nicer than fighting. We learn the power of VOWS.

Through a process of working our vows, the foreboding of yet another evening together gives way to the joy of being allies. Our “issues” lose their power to derail us, because, through the lens of our heart we see them for what they truly are: mere deflections from embracing love.

We begin Tantra: the process of allowing our highest desires (fantasies) to enter our real lives. In this abundance, weighty issues like sex and money appear lighter and richer.

 


Level   2
Living in our Hearts

Cost:
Full day gathering:$200 per couple
Half day gathering: $50 per couple

Location:
307 Lotus Lane
Saugerties NY

 

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